  | Make sure you understand the legal and medical powers process.  If a competent adult does not have these powers, do this today! | 
    | Become informed about  Medicare
    and Medicaid. 
    Consult with a lawyer who specializes in Elder Law regarding legal and financial
    questions. | 
    | Be involved with your parent's physician while educating yourself about the disease.
      Be aware of the later stages. | 
    | Appreciate your parent the way he/she is now - they are declining.  Allow for
    recurring periods of grieving for yourself and the caregiver as each stage evolves. | 
    | Unless you've been trained as a nurse, you cannot expect to be one simply because the
    need is there. | 
    | Be nice to the caregiver.  If you are the caregiver, do nice things for yourself. | 
    | Conduct a family meeting with the immediate family either in person or by telephone.
      Include a frank discussion of finances.  Do not be afraid to assign
    "jobs" to your siblings. | 
    | Remember that each of us reacts differently to an Alzheimer's victim.  Some people
    take longer to recognize symptoms and to accept the diagnosis.  "Denial" is
    part of our coping mechanism. | 
    | Contact your local Alzheimer's Association
    and the chapter closest to your parents.  Attend a support group meeting and
    encourage other family members to do so also. | 
    | Research and investigate adult daycare centers and nursing homes as early as possible -
    they may become part of the solution. |